

Sometimes I hate the question “did you cum?” Because sex isn’t necessarily all about the finishing touch. Personally I don’t cum every single time, and it’s nothing wrong with my partner, sometimes my body just doesn’t decide to finish. Communication is key. Make sure you and your partner set boundaries, and talk about what helps them get along through the process. I love making sure my partner is satisfied. I want to fulfill and check every box throughout the time we spend in that moment. Remember that consent can be drawn at any time. Create a safe word together, to let each other know if something isn’t quite right, or if you want to stop.